One of my clients who reached her goal weight last year told me at an event that l was right about the (positive) effect losing her weight would have on intimacy with her husband. 

But the improvement in marital intimacy a lot of my clients experience isn’t for the reason you might think.

Too many people, whether they’re Code Red Rebels or not, blame weight-related intimacy problems on the fat itself, as in, “My husband’s not attracted to me anymore because I’m fat.” 

Look, I took a pole dancing class when I lived in New York City, and there were some pretty big girls in that class. 

And they were incredibly sexy. Yeah, I said it.

I was impressed with how much they loved their bodies, and the fact they did showed in every move they made.

It really opened my eyes to the fact that being overweight doesn’t automatically make you unattractive to your spouse or partner. 

There’s another, way more important factor at play; one that’s probably causing a serious misunderstanding between the two of you (and straining your relationship big time as a result). 

And you know something? It doesn’t have to be that way. 

So if you’re “sure” your partner’s not attracted to you anymore because of your weight, click below to hear my video about what’s really going on. It’s gonna make so much sense when you hear it.